Bonjour, 02/28/2015
Wow, it was so weird reading the emails and seeing you guys saying
see you Wednesday. It seriously feels like just yesterday when I was opening up
my call, and having no clue where Benin actually was. Its incredible to think
back though on all that I have learned these past two years, and all the
incredible experiences that I have had, and the people I have gotten to know
and love.
I can say that I had a lot of ideas of how the mission would be
having had three older brothers that served in third world countries as well,
but until you’ve come here or been a missionary its hard to really understand
how awesome it is. It’s still really hard to believe the end is already here.
The feelings are very bittersweet as you said. I’ve never liked saying
goodbyes, but especially ones like these where I know that many of these people
I will never see again in this life. I will really miss as well just Benin and
Togo in general. Yes there are a lot of things that are pretty rough, but there
are a lot of great things as well. Especially just how friendly and outgoing
all of the people are, I doubt there are many places in the world where you can
just go start talking to about anyone on the road about God, and they will listen
to you and want to hear more. It’s been the greatest blessing to have had the
chance to serve here no doubt.
This past week has gone by pretty well, and I’ve been doing my best
to not really think about it being my last full week. We had a good church on
Sunday and its good to see the branch in Gbegamey continue to progress forward.
We had two baptisms in the branch this past week so things are starting to pick
up again little by little. I gave the lesson from the talk by Elder
Jorg Klebingat, which was a talk that I had really liked before. Unfortunately
I didn’t have a ton of time to prepare the talk, as President called us
Saturday after the cyber asking us to go help out some missionaries that were
having some problems as he was gone to Togo. It was still really good though,
and a solid talk he gave.
We had a really fun family home evening night on Monday with the
branch. It was the little thing that Desvergez and me started a while back for
all the young single adults and other members that don’t really have families
to be able to come and have FHE together, it was a good time for sure
there. Its fun showing them games that we would use back home. For
example the object lesson where you have a line of people and whisper something
to the first and he then passes it on to the last, and by the time it gets to
the last person its completely different. They thought it was the coolest thing
ever, Ha-ha; I used it as an object lesson as I talked about charity and not
gossiping or backbiting, especially among members of the church.
We had a good meeting with President on Monday like usual. Elder
Merrill pointed out something interesting in the scriptures that I haven’t
noticed to often. But the point about how many prophets went to the mountain to
pray, or receive special revelation. Obviously we also refer to the Temple as
the mountain of the Lord. I don’t know why I haven’t really noticed that
before, but its a clear example of what a great place the Temple is to receive
answers to prayers and revelation. That is one of the things I look forward to
seeing the most is the Temple again. It’s been too long!
Things are going well in our secteur. This past week we were able to
find even more new Amis, which was nice, and good for sure as its difficult here.
We were also able to fix a few baptismal dates for the end of March. We have a
certain Ami named Carlos that has been an Ami forever. He wants to be baptized
but hasn’t been able to come to church on Sundays because of his work. We’ve
been working with him for a while on it, but that kept coming up as an excuse.
We looked a lot at the story of Nephi with him, and showed him that no
commandment the Lord gives is impossible to keep. Hence if he really wants to
he can find a way to be at church on Sunday, which would in turn allow him to
be able to be baptized. We showed how Nephi had the faith that the Lord would
provide a way and accomplished the commandment. So we invited him to do the
same in going to his manager and asking for Sunday off. He said he had already
done it multiple times but it has never worked. So we showed again how many
attempts Nephi and his brothers made before they actually succeeded. Just this
past week though his manager finally decided to let him take the Sunday off. He
was pretty excited and a little amazed as well at how everything finally worked
out, and its help strengthen his testimony in the Book of Mormon, but he should
be getting baptized on the last week in March.
This past week I’ve been able to drop by and say goodbye to
certain people. Like I said I’ve never really liked saying good-bye because you
really don’t know what to say, especially when there is a chance you will never
see them again. I got to go up and see Olivier though, which was nice. He was
the old Ami I had in Calavi, who was doing awesome but is waiting to get
married before he can be baptized, so I will look forward to hearing from him
when he makes it into the church.
We also went to a little FHE with Ambroise's family last night. That
was pretty awesome as Ambroise reminded me of how it all started. I was
surprised how he remembered all the details of that first day me and my trainer
stopped by in the rain as he was with his friends, but he remembered point by
point. It was awesome to see really how far the family is progressing, and
continuing to go forward. They are still not sealed yet, as they are preparing
a time when the entire family can go together, with all the kids to get it
done. That is another good news that I'll be waiting for in not too long.
All in all this past week has been pretty good. Like I said I’m
still trying to just make the most of the time that I do have left, as I know I
am going to miss this place a ton. I know that I will really miss being a full
time missionary. I remember Garrett saying the same thing, but it is true that
I will miss just the simplicity of it, and really having your only worry being
to serve the Lord and preach his gospel. It will surely be missed. Like I said
though I’m not done yet so I will try to make the most out of what is left! I
hope all is going well there. Thank you for all of the love and support, I have
really been blessed in seeing what an awesome family and friends I really have.
I love and miss you all a ton.
Elder Oliverson
FHE at Gbegamey
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Elder Oliverson with Olivier and his soon to be wife.
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Ambroise Family
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Ambroise & Elder Oliverson
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Kansounkpa
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